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'od gsal's avatar

I think a significant piece on a very similar vein is autists both believing and taking their hard-line, black-and-white thinking style to generalisations and stereotypes. “Boys like sports and cars while girls are caring”; well I don’t like sports and cars, therefore…

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While I like your explanation I think it's also that many people who do high level engineering work feel like they don't live up to the standards of masculinity, or rather don't want to compete by those standards. If you sit at a computer all day you're going to end up a scrawny dude who doesn't have much social ability. Guys in those positions tend to be marginalized implicitly. They see that women with those qualities are treated much better (as long as they're pretty), and they're used to more fluid identity overall due to their interactions being primarily online. So it seems logical that they'd rather be judged by woman's or trans people's standards than straight guy's, which they feel they don't align with anyway. And given that there's a significant group of people (leftists) who will support and commend you for doing this, all the ingredients are there to make this a seemingly workable proposition.

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